Friendliness

Sociologists claim that human as social beings need friends. People need someone to talk to and to associate with. Life without friends is like sailing on a deserted ship. No one wants to live alone. The history of friends and friendships can be traced way back to the first man and woman. According to some beliefs, Adam and Eve were friends first and indeed they were best of friends.

In today's world of globalization where competition to make better living is rife, there is little time to really meet people and have real friends. Everyone is rushing somewhere, everyone seems to be busy and almost everyone does not have time to get to know a person. One may have plenty of casual acquaintances but true friends are difficult to find.

True friendship is difficult to define. The essence of true friendship is the will to share. While we cannot live in isolation, we cannot have everything for ourselves too. Nature has given us an abundance of resources. These resources must be shared. True friends must have the will to share certain things if not everything. The practice of giving and sharing must be sincere. There is no remorse or regret. True friends expect nothing in return.

True friendship is being there when you are needed most. The commitments of friends are often tested during crisis. A friends may be the first person to be called for helped. If he fails to respond to that distress call without any rock-solid reason, then the bond of friendship is broken. True friends must be willing to help even though it means sacrificing certain things or exposing oneself to certain risks. So long as the call for help is genuine and the means to help are legal, then true friendship must be based on a mutual commitment to support each other and being able to deliver when help is needed.

True friendship is giving moral support and other forms of spiritual support. More often than not, a friend just needs a shoulder to cry on. The fact that friends are often together during certain crisis proves that mere physical presence can carry weight. Moral support can often boost confidence while the spiritual touch can take one a long way when dealing with sorrow, depression and illness. Pure friendship is often based in the pillars of spiritualism. The principle of" belief in God" often makes friendship last for longer periods of time.

True friendship is about giving and not taking all the time. Some friends do take advantage of others. Friendship is sometimes used to benefit one party. When this happens, there is bound to be anger, frustration and misery. No one person can give all the tome. There is a time when the limits to a friendship are tested and if the elements of giving and taking are absent at the particular time, that" ship" will not float for long.

True friendship is accepting one as he is. A friends does not ask to be changed or to change. However, if there are undesirable traits among friends, then it is the responsibility of friends to help change that friend to a better person. Bad habits die hard and changing those habits need a little time. There is a need to be patient and to lend a hand to any friend who need assistance.

Most of all, friends must be genuine and any pretentious acts must be done away with. True friends communicate with each other truly and frequently. While there may be a need to get together often, friends must also be given some form of privacy so as not to suffocate them and hinder them from living their own lives.

~Khai Sing~

It's so funny xD

Yesterday, I had Science tuition in Ryan's house..
Then, Ryan was talking to himself..so Preston said:" Ryan..自言自语..( which means talking to himself)

I think Ryan don't understand..and got confused between 自言自语 and 自由自在( which means freedom)~~
HAHAHA!

Ryan,, u ..haha! =P

^^

Ahh..love Lee Min Ho! xD

Min Ho is super cute:))))))))))



Love him!
He is so sweet and gentlemanly:) xD

it's okay..

At least we won the F2'S
We are already satisfied:)
It's all Form three stuff..
how can we know that?
We celebrated for our hardworking-ness=)
We can surely do it next year!
It's a very good experience for us.
Thank you Clara and Anita!!
You girls help me a lot!
Love ya~!

YEAHSS!!

Hooray! We made it!
I still can't believe that we BEAT them!!!!
xD haha..so happie!!

It's like this:~
Teahcer: Pemenang ialah Tingkatan 2...
( Me, Clara and Anita almost gave up hope on winning it)
...E!
We shouted like what because we were too happy!
But Wednesday will be a nightmare for us! We are against ***!!
Hell! Help me! They are sooooo clever!
But anyways,, we will try our best because" If I want, I surely can!!"

We have to make it!

The third time for the Sejarah competition is on Monday!!
Help! A lot of Form three stuff!>.<
We must beat our competitors!
Gotta beat'em!
We can surely do it. We must have confindence! Because we prayed for it!

Yeah!

YeahHHH!! We won for the sejarah competition for the second time!!
I couldn't believe it!!
Me, Anita and Clara were so happy until we screamed and shouted!
We really put in a lot of effort! so we were so happy!!!!!!!!!!
Luckily i answered the first question correctly!
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Teacher: Apakah persamaan antara Zaman Neolitik dan zaman Logam?

The answer straight away comes to my mind.
Bercucuk tanam is it?
I wanted to make sure with Anita and clara( each question is given 30 seconds)

Me: Mereka bercucuk tanam?
Teahcer: Correct.
Me, clara and anita were like yeahh!,,

Second question:
: Apakah yang dimaksudkan syajaratun?
Anita quickly told me pokokokokokokoko
Calra was like: pohonpohonpohonpohonpohon
Anita: just say pokok..pokok!
Clara: pohon!
I was sooo confused itill i said : WHAT?? huh?
They were laughing like what!!
The i quickly said: pohon atau pokok.

Correct.
Yeahss!!

We were against F3B. We were so lucky to beat them!
Haha! So happy^^!!

Friendss

Everyone in thins world need to have friends. Without friends, i can't even survive! seriously!
True friends can really bring a lot of happiness to us. They know what we're thinking..everything about you.
but fake friends are different..They may look good in front of you, but who knows if they are the ones who always say bad things about you:(..
I really feel so happy and lucky to study in Riam. ( just don't know why)
I am trying to remember how was it like when i first come to Riam.

I had been studying in St.Co for 3 weeks..yupe.
Till the 22th of January, my mum suggested Riam to me..i was shocked!!
haha..actually..luckily Ryan's mum talked to my mum..or my mum will never had the idea to move me to Riam!
I was like..hmm..really? What? Why? When? All the questions popped out of my mind.
On the 23th, my mum brought me to this school. I went to Mr Richard's office and i will be in Riam for the next dayy..gosh!
I was so worried that i would not have any friends! actually i felt quite sad..haha.

On that very special dayy, which was on the 24th of January, my mum drove me to school and we arrived there at 6.45
I found my class!
Wow..whiteboard, nice tables and everything is much better than st.co!
Then i saw Garnette..haha..she was so friendly:)
She brought me to the track and we chatted all the way we walked.
After that, i went back to my new class.
I sat between Kashminder and Michael Lisa! Lol!!
They were like so unfriendly to me..they stared at me like i am a monster or what.
Then i saw Ryan! haha..he's my neighbour and the worst thing is that i didn't even see him during the holidays.!! can;t imagine it!
So Ms Genevieve asked me to intoduce myself..haha
I said my name only..haha xD
so nervous..
and teacher asked me to sit beside Ryan..lol! >....<
Then i didn't know him that time..seriously..the only thing i know about him : he is my neighbour and he has been my classmate for 6 years.
So i asked him about the hw that i had missed..wow..quite lotzz yeah!
The, omg. Chung Yun go and say: "Ryan..your girlfriend oo.."
OMG! Tha'ts why i hate him so much that few days..but not now lahh..lol!
and Corina is the first one who introduced herself to me:
Corina: Hye!
Me: Hye( a bit shy )
Corina: What's your name??
Me: Khai Sing( smiling)
Corina: Owh..khai sing. My name is Corina and welcome ti F1E!!
Haha..That made me felt so welcomed. I felt a lot better! xD
I saw a lot of familiar faces but i don't remember them! haha
Then Jin Cheng was like this:
JC: Hey, i think i saw u before. U look so familiar.
Ks: ya..(smile.)
That's all my response to him.lol!!
When the school ended, i came home and i saw some pics of my nursery days.
OMG! I was so surprised to know that he's one of my classmates.
I still have the pics lol!! That was my 3rd or 4th bday!!
I celebrated in the school! and he was just sitting next to me!! haha!
and I saw the class photo. OMG! Dom was there too!
Such a coincidence! xD
Lolsss..
and Clara and I was never close till the day Mdm Marlyn divided us into lots of groups for the Science presentation thing.
I am so gladd to have a friend like her!! She is the best!:))
She did extremely well in our Science presentation! She taught me and i also talked in front of the class..omg..so nervous..! Mdm Marlyn praised us because we did well and she wanted us to repeat the same thing in front of Mr Richard! I wanted to cry when i heard that..
Luckil, only Ms Celine came.
Whoohss...
Haha! There's a lot more of stories in Riam but i lazy to write already:)

~Khai Sing~
~15/8/09~
~Saturday~

schoolss..awww

I really hate schools on Saturday!
Today's worse..what is that???!
Early in the morning we need to go to hall..hell !
It's super boring! and i don't know what's going on!
drugs? smokers?
hate it! especially the stupid man who kept on shouting like hell..feel like boxing him!
Tell us is already enough! what for you shout! and we can't even understand!
and it's meaningless..though mdm wee said that it was interesting!
wdh..no way! i prefer studying sejarah in my class! or having 2 periodss of Sivik..i dun mind!
really!! arhhhh..>.<

Funn:)

Haha..i can't wait to next Tuesday!
We can play hid-and seek.( That sounds really childish but it's fun!!)
For the past one month..me , clara and anita used to play hide and seek around the Stadium.
It's the best thing in school! We had so much fun!!
andnext week can be even funner!
Stacey and Kimberly will be joining us!
Yeah xD

Sejarah competition!!

Pertandingan Kuiz Sejarah starts at 11 August!!:)
Haha..we won..for the first round..at least!!
Yeah..we gonna beat every group! we can do it!!
Clara and Anita are in my group!!
Yeah! They are so good! Glad to have them in my group!
Clara did a lot of work! She studied till 11!!
Thank you so much! Soo nice to have a friend like you:)))
Let's all pray for the best! We can surely beat them!

My heart will go on